Who Did I Marry?
Wednesday, August 29, 2012
One guest discovered, through the use of Facebook, that her husband married another woman in an elaborate ceremony in Walt Disney World, even bringing their children to the wedding! Another guest discovered her husband not only had two other families on the side, but was also a brutal murderer who killed with his bare hands.
After 27 years of marriage, one woman finds out her husband was involved in a huge child pornography ring. Anderson provides tips from an FBI-trained intelligence deception expert to help discover if the person in your life is lying to you.
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I was married for 30 years and my wife didn't know I was bisexual...neither did I. I loved her with every fibre while we were together but at the point where we were no longer connected (I blame menopause) I grew to realize how I needed to "regain myself" and I did...with another man. I've been separated for 3 years and faced a plethora of adversity,but I know I did the right for both of us. I am just getting back on my feet now after a very long haul of legal issues and the realization of my new identity. The guilt, shame and fear was overbearing for me, but with some help, I am where I'm supposed to be and trusting the process. Anderson, I think you are my alter-ego...just saying.
Watch Anderson every day and just LOVE him. I live in Toronto with my boyfriend of thirty two years. My question is does Anderson have a boyfriend, he is such a major catch!!!!!!!!!!
This show hit home for me. I went thru hell too. I married a man in 2000 and he walked away one day in sep of 2008. I discovered that the whole marriage was a con. His work was made up, his business trips were made up,his health problems made up. To sum it up he took all of my money,jewlery,anything of value. He then ruined my perfect credit openning multiple credit cards and maxing them out hiding the evidence by stealing my mail. He also ruined my daughters credit. He has conned other women out of their money. I can not afford to get a attorney to divorce him...but that did not stop him from marring again. He is wanted by the courts ....they are always trying to serve papers to him. Well thank you for allowing me to share my continuing nightmare.
Debbie Hart
Living with my husband for almost fifty years, two months after his death in 2006 his cousin told me "he had a problem, a serious problem." Because his in-law family and cousin had a severe hatred for his Mother and her life-style and had not inherited from a Grandparent, I did not question her statement at that time. A couple of months later I brought up the subject, the cousin said, "he was with the wrong crowd, stealing, etc." The fact is I believe he had felon convictions in his history, there are people who shun me thinking that I know his background when I do not; this is disturbing; I have been in therapy for the past couple of years. The in-law family did not come to our wedding.
Just when you think you`ve heard it all, you hear something else that stuns ya. I think we must be living in the last days according to the bible because it says people will live like it is Sodom and Gomorrah again before the Lord`s return. It stuns me still that there are people like these woman`s husbands that can be so callus. I know women cheat too but do not typically living dbl lives. I think the point is, no matter who is doing the cheating it`s not the victims fault ever. " We sin when we are drawn away of our own lust" A child points at someone else and says he or she made me do it but maturity accepts responsibility. Myself, I was married to a man who managed to put on such a convincing front that I truly believed he loved me. I mean I was in my thirties so I was cautious and thoughtful, I was watchful and careful. I had made him truly the love of my life. But a person in love finally accepts the love shown as genuine and the ecstasy is intoxicating. The day after I married him it was like I had married Dr. Jekyl and Mr. Hyde. , and over time one after another female and male friend filled me in on his underhanded girl chasing. The guy he grew up with felt bad for me and told me how my husband was looking for some woman to take her for what she is worth. I began to catch him in many lies and with other woman and I always thought he wanted me to catch him because he was so bold. I owned property so I never did place my it in jeopardy but I felt my self respect slipping. He was abusive in every way you can imagine. Had I not been a successful woman he`d have destroyed the me I had been, as it was I changed into a lot less joyful woman. He would come home and see a smile on my face and he`d say" Let`s see if I can`t knock that smile off of your face" During this time I accepted Jesus as my savior and it was my faith that held me together. I took beatings so bad he caused me to miscarry a baby. It took some time for me to learn the word of God and the spirit of the love of God to know when in my spirit I knew when to leave. You see God does not love HE IS love and he loved me and you too. My husband ended up doing drugs to the point that he had to be institutionalized for a time. I did not marry again for 10 years and he has married someone else now. I pray for her and him . I had to forgive for him my own sake so I could go on and be stronger and love again. You know the old saying " The best revenge is to go on and live well" I still love him, but I found found out how to love God`s way.
I lived with a man like this... He is a sex offender... it gave me courage...and Strength... and after our divorce I became a Correctional Sergeant.
These people do NOT change girlfriends... but there are so many of us loving and trusting women, that they just go to the next.
A great book to read is Gavin de Becker... THE GIFT OF FEAR it will help you a lot. It would do your listening audience a great service to have him on your show!
thanks for exposing these morons!
Where can I watch today's episode of the show. I missed it due to car issues?
Watched you show today and the first lady guest said her husband was a republican and you immediately made comments like "of course, what else would you expect from a republican?" It seems you owe an apology on that type of comment. Hello... !!have you ever heard of the Kennedy's, Bill Clinton, Weiner??? I could go on. Seems there are lots more dems who have no control over their sexual behavior. Probably at least 2 to 1 Your show should not be so politically slanted even though you are a dem yourself given your life style. Would be nice if you tried to keep your personal comments out of what the guests are presenting. Politics had nothing to do with today's show.
Why do your proffesional don't have am answer about the darkside of women. It seen to me its always the bad side of a men.
For example man should not hit a woman,but not much is said about woman hitting a man. You even see this on tv shows where
the woman is hitting the man.But,If man atempt to hit a woman he is jump on by other very hard. Don't get me wrong, I belevie that neither one of then should be hitting each other.
I married a man who lived another life, he had a very high IQ took everything in the divorce and judge even asked him he minded if I kept things that were mine! As it turns out he had been planning the divorce for a year and still having martial relations with me. He sued his emploer and had money held in escrow so it could not be considered as assests in the divorce. Locked me out of joint mailbox and was stealing my 401K statements, breaking into our home during the separation while I was not home, going through my trash and stealing my medicine bottles. He worked for the phone company and he tapped my home phone. He did so many awful things. Near the end of the divorce I was afraid of him he would come home and not speak to anyone, I slept in my duaghters room with a gun under the sheets. When the divorce was over after a 2 day jury trial, the very next day I had something appear in my email that was a computer site that had over 55 CD's you could order that had every situation you could be in with a spouse, the site was titled "What you need to know and do before contacting an attorney on how to steal everything from your spouse" as best I recall. We were married 12 years and on weekends he was telling he was at hunting camp and women were not allowerd or he would loose his membership. One day I got so curious that I went there and a man in a cabin next to his said he had not seen my husband in over 6 months. My husband was living with another woman on the weekends. She lived a mile behind us and he was hiding his truck. But there were two times when I saw him on the highway with other women in his vehicle which is what made me go to the humting camp to look for him. He did so many horrible things. About 7 years later his attorney's house and business was raided and his attorney (who was the city attorney)was arrested for child porn. How is that for Karma.
Anderson, why do you stoop to the lowest common denominator by focusing on your guest's oh so obvious remark about her "Republican" husband who, by the way, sounds like a total dirt bag! We're willing to bet you would not have looked to the audience if that had been Hillary talking about her dirt bag husband and his antics 'under the desk!' I don't want to get nasty - you know exactly what we are talking about... why is it that the media seem perfectly willing to jump on every sleezy comment that is meant to polarize the thinking of people who don't pay attention to the facts, but would rather look at the worst possible case scenarios as being indicative of everyone else in the particular group? Things that happen on the right are spread out to color ALL conservatives as one while it seems to make no difference at all what a Democrat might do - he or she gets a pass! Where's the story on Gauthier? Disgusting! We are disappointed in you because you usually seem to stay fairly neutral and that is so refreshing to us, given the rest of the network media who make no apologies for their leanings. It was a cheap shot!
In following up my previous comment - we mean no disrespect to the many, many women who have posted their own experiences here. We are so sorry that you have had to go through those awful nightmares. We are in no way saying what she said is false, quite the contrary - it was only because we are so tired of any and every despicable act being used to define a particular group...
I was in the 1964 Alaskan Earthquake and the Door jams were racking and the stairs were rolling up and down. We hit the door just right and were able to get outside by going "up and down" the "down" Stairs The only place for us was OUTSIDE in the open. When we got there the ground was rolling as well and 1/2 the time I was taller than the 6'3" guy standing next to me. Our unit was responsible for guarding JC Penny and the downtown area of Anchorage and then we were taken to Seward to guard the port that had been decimated. What you experienced in the earthquake room was minor---remember, you knew what was going on!!
John Gray
I was a bit surprised when Anderson indicated that the audience concluded that because the first guests husband was a republican that explained his actions. Please remember that the most immoral of our presidents (Kennedy and Clinton) were democrats.
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