Dr. John Gottman, Co-Founder of The Gottman Institute, says there are three things you should never say in a fight with a significant other. Are you guilty?
Have you said one of these three things when in a fight?
1) You never...
2) You always...
3) Anything insulting, or acting superior.
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excellent show on relationships , an how to have guidelines in a
argument with spouse=more eye opening info like this would love to see-
My husband is a police officer and he often shows contempt for me when I am emotional. Last year I had cancer. I know that what Dr. Gottman is talking about. I have since told my husband that he has to be nicer when we fight or I will leave.