Bengals Cheerleader Confronts Website Owner for Defamation of Character

Thursday, November 10, 2011 8:44AM
Imagine discovering one day, out of nowhere, someone is posting photos and spreading lies about you on the Internet -- lies that trash your character and impact your career. That’s exactly what happened to Sarah Jones.

Sarah Jones was living what she says was a normal life -- a high school English teacher in a relationship with a man she is now married to, and as a hobby, member of the Cincinnati Bengals cheerleading squad. In October 2009 she received a call that changed her life. The phone call came from one the Bengals players who told her they saw a posting on TheDirty.com which claimed she had been spotted around town with a Cincinnati Bengals player and had sex with the entire Bengals football team.

“That's what it said,” says Jones. “That I had been seen out around Cincinnati with several football players… the picture is taken out of context because it's taken at a charity event we did for Toys for Tots.” After seeing the October postings on the website, where people are encouraged to “submit dirt,” she contacted the site and begged them to take it down.

Jones says that she kind of let it go after the October posting, but when she saw another posting in December, claiming she had STDs and had sex in her classroom, she says she broke down, threw up and had a panic attack.

Because local news got wind of the story, Jones contacted school officials. “One day I was this credible teacher that they looked up to and listened to,” says Jones. “The next day I was a slut to them. I had a student come in and say I cannot come into my classroom and learn because you had sex in here and you're a slut.”

Jones says she had to have a conversation with the 15-year-old students in her class to clear her name -- telling them she did not have an STD and does not sleep around.

“I don't teach elementary school. I teach high school,” says Jones. “These kids Google me. They see things. If it's on the Internet, it's real to them. They believe it.” Regardless of trying to clear her name, parents told Jones that they did not want their children in her class.

For the first time, Jones and the man responsible for TheDirty.com, Nik Richie, come face to face on “Anderson.”

“Nik, why did you create a site that allows people to spread lies and hurts people?” asks Anderson.

“Here's the thing, Anderson. It's more than just lies. TheDirty.com is the first ever reality Internet site. Reality TV is so big, I thought of an idea like no one's doing reality Internet. Let me start the site.”

Richie continues, “It's not lies. What we do is we get posts from all over the world. In Sarah's case, she was a cheerleader. People were submitting pictures of her half naked as a cheerleader, and she was a teacher. And since then, I apologized to this girl. She just is constantly going on.”

Jones says this is the first time she had had any contact with him. “This is not a battle between me and him,” says Jones. “He didn't post me on there. But it's his website. The fact that someone can sleep at night and have a website that ruins people’s lives, I didn't ask for this. I'm not a celebrity… I'm 26 years old… and the fact that he can do this to people, it's completely delusional to me.”

Nik continues by comparing his website to that of a modern day library. “I'm just a librarian. You can't go after the person just because you don't like them.”

“First of all, Nik, my cousin's a librarian in Mississippi, and she will freak out that you are comparing yourself to a librarian,” says Anderson. “You're not a librarian, because librarians don't stack the shelves with porn and smut. And if they did, they would be fired.”

 Jones’ complete conversation with Richie airs Thursday, November 10 on “Anderson.”
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Brad
218 days ago

You should ask Sarah Jones back on your show to find out what life is like after lying to you and being found guilty. At the same time as her appearance on your program she was involved with a student which she recently plead guilty to.

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Jonathan
225 days ago

If it walks like a duck and talks like a duck, then it's a hoe.

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Frank Newcomb
231 days ago

Nik is a piece of crap. There isn't any Freedom of Speech here. The S.O.B. is a low life and someone should take him out to the woods, get a 2' x 4' and break both of his legs. Then post it on line as an example of what happens to low life liars who think they can hide behind the 1st. Enough broken legs and a-holes like this might think twice before doing it.

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pt
391 days ago

Funny, this guy always annoys me............He truly believes he's the moral consciousness of Society at large......
What's worse is how others in & out of his industry bow down for his approval....in hopes of an abated 'high eyebrow' or chastising........someone should remove the silver spoon from his mouth & assure others they'll never receive a check from Anderson Cooper !

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J. M.
416 days ago

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

Omg Anderson, you have got to be the BIGGEST white knight mangina there ever was. Nice job publicly defending this whore pedophile and making yourself look like a moron.

I should thank you though. This was absolutely friggin' hilarious and just made my day.

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Jenae
417 days ago

Also....Please excuse my spelling!

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Jenae
417 days ago

I wonder how she feels now that she is in the news yet again for yet another sexual enccounter? I beleive nothing she said on Anderson now!

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James
419 days ago

SHE WAS INDICTED ON CHILD SEX CHARGES TODAY AND HER MOTHER WAS INDICTED FOR TAMPERING. WHERE ARE THE VIDEOS NOW?? Should make you sick as YOU defended her and now she has been indicted for sleeping with a teenage student. Yeah, she is such a victim.

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Trav P
446 days ago

Nik Ritchie is an idiot. Its defamation of character for all those people who are on that site and people steal those pictures from social media sites just to post them on the dirty to bash someone.
Nik is getting attention for his site because people can easily hide behind a screen name and bash others. If it were face to face they never would do it but on the internet since you don't have to own up to what you post then you feel more power to be mean to others. This guy needs to have a good lawsuit from many different people posted on the site then maybe he will stop.
He claims to follow laws and that on the site but he doesn't, the site has nothing factual on it and people steal pictures so how is that legal? Its sad that we live in a society that lets this happen. This is CYBERBULLYING at its finest here, we don't support it and show ads to say stop bullying and stop cyberbullying. If you want to stop it, start with the Dirty.com

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eslteacher
447 days ago

As a teacher myself, and knowing kids these days, I try to keep my public image as clean as possible to avoid undermining my authority in the classroom, so I do have to kind of question this woman's decision to be a scantily clad cheerleader for an NFL team at the same time she is a teacher. (Not that there is anything wrong with cheerleaders. But I think she could have foreseen having some problems with horny 16 year olds).

That said, nothing justifies what this site has done to her. In this age of information overload, people seem to have lost track of their boundaries. Richie seems to be assuming that the general public has any need or right to know the things that are getting posted on his site, but we don't, even if it had been true. And the fact that it isn't true clearly puts it over the border from freedom of speech to libel and slander. If Richie is going to provide a forum that supports and encourages this, with absolutely no intention of confirming whether it is true or not, he should be held accountable for the fallout. (As should the person who actually posted it, if they can be found. If not, Richie was the one that provided them with a nice anonymous forum, so that's his own fault. Maybe he'll rethink it in the future.)

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Kate
447 days ago

I'm watching right now, and am furious about this website! I'm a 26 year old professional, college graduate, all that jazz...

To get right to the point, first I am shocked that someone would maintain a website like thedirty.com. Second, I'm even more dumbfounded that people post these pictures of others and make these comments that are slanderous, and I would think fall under the definition of libel. Third, and almost to the point of speechlessness, I am just in a state of awe that he makes comments to put down the person in the picture even more! Why is action not being taken to have websites like this one taken down?!

Anderson, I love your show! This segment really got my blood boiling, to the point of wanting to take action... Would love to see that happen! Glad to see someone sticking up for the everyday Americans who work hard to make a name for themselves.

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Kate
447 days ago

To get right to the point, first I am shocked that someone would maintain a website like thedirty.com. Second, I'm even more dumbfounded that people post these pictures of others and make these comments that are slanderous, and I would think fall under the definition of libel. Third, and almost to the point of speechlessness, I am just in a state of awe that he makes comments to put down the person in the picture even more! Why is action not being taken to have websites like this one taken down?!

Anderson, I love your show! This segment really got my blood boiling, to the point of wanting to take action... Would love to see that happen! Glad to see someone sticking up for the everyday Americans who work hard to make a name for themselves.

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Caitlin Dorgan
448 days ago

This is absolutely ridiculous. I woke up this morning to see one of the sweetest girls ever being victimized on national television. As a former grade school and high school cheerleader, my coach was a ben gal cheerleader and I've met Sarah several times. Let me tell you something: being a teacher and helping kids as always been her first priority. It's been year since I've seen her but I can tell you she is nothing but a sweet and genuine person. This Nik character did NOT do her a favor. He's sitting out in California and has no idea how hard things have been for her here. This was all over the news, everyone heard about it. You did NOT do her a favor Nik, you destroyed her life. As a victim of internet slander and harassment myself, I can tell you that those hateful words stay out there forever and she will never be able to put that chapter of her life behind her because the internet post is forever. She is not an "example" she is a human being with feelings like Nik's daughter will one day be. One day I hope his daughter hears about this and questions what kind of man her father is to put a defenseless woman's personal business and LIES all over the internet. Sarah: this man is full of crap. You are a better person than me, I would have walked off the stage. He doesn't deserve your time or energy because he's heartless. Don't waste your time. You are still one of the sweetest people I've ever met and you don't deserve any of this. Don't let hi*****eful words get you down. You are an amazing influence in this community and the kids you teach are lucky to have you in their lives. From personal experienced I can tell you that it takes years to feel like you've got your life back, but afterwards you come back ten times stronger. Please don't let this ignorant man get you down. You deserve nothing but positive people in your life and I promise you, you have an army of believers on your side. To be honest I'm not even sure if you will read this post! But it needs to be said anyway. Sarah, you are a great person, teacher, and influence. Don't let anyone convince you otherwise. Best of luck and keep your chin up :)

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John Keeber
449 days ago

This is just one more excample of our socities complete lack of Morals. We respect no one, not even ourselves. We have Popluar Religious leaders who spend their time Defaming anyone and everyone for there actions, then they go out and molest and rape young and old alike. And then claim they speak for God.
We raise our young with as little supervision as possible and expected to be them to be Good, responsible citizens! Then when they grow up into less then Good, kind and thinking people,we get upset.
Insanity!

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DE
449 days ago

Thank you for calling this guy on his bull.
Can't believe he tried to justify this website!!
I love Anderson!

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